In an earlier article, I recall saying that our job of parenting is never finished and I believe that. I also believe that in the children’s adult years, we as parents are continuing to lead the way as we deal with changing issues in the second half of our lives. One of those huge issues is health care in the next 20+ years. As serious a problem as we now have, I can’t imagine how health care will continue to change and how our children will afford to have good health care.
My suggestion to them: long term care insurance.
See, when I first heard of long term care and began to tell my husband, he did what these manly creatures generally do. He disagreed with me. I did what most wives do – I argued back with him. This continued for almost two years until I just wore him
down. I did – and I’m still bragging about that little victory. He finally surrendered, said call the agent, signed the papers and you think that is the end of my story. It isn’t.
With long term care insurance, there is a probationary period during which time, as I understand, one is not eligible for coverage. Our time was 6 months. Well, about 6-1/2 months later, my husband had a massive heart attack; actually, he also went into
cardiac arrest and several days later had triple bypass surgery.
So now, I wonder if he would be eligible for long term care insurance. Probably not but if he could get the insurance, we would no longer be able to afford the premium.
So this is my sermon to most people on the sunny side of 60. If you are extremely wealthy, you have my permission to tune me out. Otherwise, you might want to listen up because this momma gets it. Hopefully, you will also get it — long term care insurance, that is. Make it a part of your pre-retirement and long range retirement planning. As in most things, all long term care insurance is not equal, so do your homework. Don’t just look at the premium. Look at the company’s financial stability and its market share – also compare what you get for what you pay. But – just do it.
Becky Hopkins, Realtor®, SRES, GRI
CENTURY 21 Judge Fite Company
Serving the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex